How To Fight 80% Less In Pregnancy + Postpartum
This is the best skill pregnant + postpartum couples will ever get.
Questions? DM @cocomckenzi
Six modules. Watch together. Coco walks you through the full SAME TEAM method — what it is, why it works, and exactly how to use it.
A step-by-step reference guide. Pull it out mid-argument. Every step, every script line — right there when you need it most.
The course is yours the moment you buy — on your iPad, phone, or laptop. Watch it together on the couch tonight. Revisit a single step before a hard conversation next month. The PDF lives in your camera roll for when you need it mid-argument.
One purchase. Lifetime access. No subscriptions.
$45 seems too cheap to actually work.
Price has nothing to do with whether something works — using it does. This is the same method Coco uses with private coaching clients. You're getting it in a format you can access tonight.
We already spend money on therapy.
This isn't instead of therapy — it's what you do between sessions so you stop burning $150/hr re-explaining the same fight. Same Team gives you a shared language that makes therapy twice as effective.
Our problems are too deep for a $45 course.
Most relationship conflict — even old, heavy stuff — comes back to unmet values and unexpressed needs. That's exactly what this method addresses. Deep problem, simple skill.
I can't get my partner on board.
Forward them this page. Or watch the first module alone. You only need one willing partner to start — the other usually follows once they see the shift in you.
We're not really "fighters" — we just don't communicate well.
Conflict doesn't have to be loud to be damaging. Distance, silence, and disconnection are all forms of unresolved conflict. You don't have to be fighting to need this.
If I bring this up, my partner will think we're broken.
Flip it: "I found something for us to do together to make the next chapter easier." This isn't an admission something is wrong — it's an investment in what you're building.
Coco has been in the room when families are born — literally. She's seen what happens to couples in the transition to parenthood up close, across hundreds of families.
Trained in Annie Lalla's Heart Coach method — Coco brings real clinical frameworks for helping couples find their way back to each other, built on how the brain actually processes love and conflict.
She built her methodology working with high-stress military couples — the most demanding relationship environment there is. If it works there, it works anywhere.
Same Team isn't advice. It's a repeatable process with exact scripts. You learn it once and use it every time — whether you're 8 weeks pregnant or 8 months postpartum.
She built New Family Foundations around one truth she kept seeing: couples who loved each other losing each other in the transition to parenthood. Not because they were incompatible. Because they didn't have the tools. SAME TEAM is the tool.
Separate what the fight is about from what it's really about.
Find out what each of you was actually trying to protect.
Discover the shared value you didn't know you both had.
Stop going quiet. Name the conflict inside yourself.
Ask for change in a way that makes your partner want to grow.
The one belief that changes how every hard conversation starts.
No — and this is important. You can watch the first module alone and the shift will be noticeable enough that your partner will want to know what you watched. Same Team teaches a method that changes how YOU show up in conflict first — and when one partner changes, the dynamic changes. That said, the method is most powerful when you do it together.
If you're worried about bringing it up, try this: "I found something for us to do together that takes two hours and costs less than a dinner out. Can we try it this weekend?" You don't have to frame it as crisis management — frame it as an investment in your best years together.
Most skeptical partners come out of it saying it was their idea.
It is never too late. Same Team is specifically designed for the full pregnancy and postpartum arc — from the moment you find out you're pregnant through the end of the first year. If you're already in the thick of it, this is even more urgent, not less.
The couples who get the most out of this are often the ones who are 3–6 months postpartum and already feeling the distance. You're not too far gone. You're exactly who this was built for. The method works whether you're having the same fight for the first time or the hundredth — because it addresses the root, not the symptom.
Buy it. Watch it this week. Use it this weekend. The window isn't closed — but every week you wait, the pattern gets a little more practiced and a little harder to interrupt.
"The best time was before the pregnancy. The second best time is right now."
$45 one-time · instant access · yours foreverMost couples spend thousands trying to find this in a therapist's office. You get it for $45.
How To Fight 80% Less In Pregnancy + Postpartum
Questions? DM @cocomckenzi on Instagram.
If you do the work and don't feel the difference in your relationship, reach out. We'll make it right. No hoops. No shame.
